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Westbury father found in lake 'took his own life'


A father from Westbury died after taking an overdose of prescription drugs and then jumping into a lake, an inquest heard.

Zowie Tobin, 23, who lived with his partner Samantha Cowdrey, 21, their nine-month-old daughter Courtney, and her son Liam, two, in Lilac Grove, was found dead in Penleigh Lake on August 12.

Assistant Deputy Coroner for Wiltshire and Swindon, Ian Singleton, ruled that Mr Tobin took his own life at an inquest in Trowbridge Town Hall on Wednesday.

The inquest heard that Mr Tobin had alcohol and prescription drugs Diazepam and the anti-depressant Amitriptyline in his system.

His girlfriend of three years, Samantha Cowdrey, told the hearing that her partner was trying to give up cannabis, a drug that he had been taking since about 14.

“He did smoke cannabis everyday about 1.7 grams which is about £10 worth. It helped him with stress,” she said.

“He was quite pleased with himself for trying to come off the cannabis. He didn’t want to be reliant on something and didn’t want it around the kids.”

On August 7, Mr Tobin went to his GP surgery, White Horse Surgery, in Hospital Road, Westbury, and was prescribed to take one or two Diazepam a day, to help him come off cannabis.

The next day, Miss Cowdrey recalled her partner was not himself.

She said: ”He just sat in the chair for a minute and then grabbed his tablets. He told me he was going to kill himself and left.

“I was worried but I just thought he was in a bad mood and had gone to calm down. I thought he would be round his mum’s.”

When Mr Tobin didn’t return home by Monday morning, Miss Cowdrey and Mr Tobin’s father, Keith Tobin, went to look for him.

Miss Cowdrey said: “I went to the lakes because his granddad’s ashes were scattered there he said if he ever went missing he’d sit there because it was peaceful.”

However they couldn’t find Mr Tobin. Two days later his body was found there by a dog walker.

PC Alex Curtis, of Melksham CID, told the inquest: “It was apparent to me that the body had been in the water for a couple of days. There were no noticeable injuries. The clothes were undisturbed. There were no signs of struggle or any suspicious circumstances in my opinion.”

PC Curtis found cans of Fosters lager, a can of Dr Pepper, a box of Diazepam and an empty packet of 28 Amitriptyline tablets, prescribed to Mr Tobin’s mother Carol, by the edge of the lake.

After the hearing, Carol Tobin, of Timor Road, Westbury, said she was ‘satisfied’ with the verdict.

She added: “Obviously I’m still grieving and I’m going to be grieving for a long time.

“There are still unanswered questions as to why Zowie did what he did.

“I would like to thank the man who found Zowie’s body for reporting it to the police so quickly as well as everyone who gave evidence at the inquest and the Wiltshire Times who have put in lovely tributes.”


Your Say YourTimes

onthesofa, wilts says...
10:20am Thu 21 Jan 10

.A very sad time for his family and sad also that he felt this was his only way out,may he rest in peace now.

honey275, westbury says...
10:59am Thu 21 Jan 10

this is very sad for the family especially zowies mother father and his twin brother, it is a shame that he didnt feel he could talk to mrs tobin as she is a very lovely women and he knows that she would do anything for him, it must be so hard for his twin brother as it must feel like half of him is missing , rest in peace zowie your mum dad and brother miss u so so much and u will never ever be forgotten , you are in our hearts day in day out and the love for u will never fade xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

shezparmenter, plymouth says...
12:06pm Fri 22 Jan 10

zowie will be missed so much by his two wonderfull children who will keep his memoreys lived on in them and will be sadly missed by his partner sam who will never stop loveing him or forget him thoughts are with them aswell 3years living with someone u love and to lose em is the hardest thing for anyone to get through yr at peace now zowie hope yr in a peacefull place thinking off u always brother always in our hearts sherrie,gerry,childr
en,xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

footpad1988, westbury says...
1:34pm Fri 22 Jan 10

rest in peace zowie you will be missed, by most, obviously not by sam as she has already moved on, it took her only a week to sleep around after this tragedy and playing the act of a widow i must say your almost as good as janine butcher, zowie could have had anyone, god only knows why he stuck with a selfish evil immature thing. ohh and his sister obv didnt love him either as she always said she wanted him gone and even tried to do it herself a female version of archy mitchell (well i think it is a woman but is quite hard to tell).

shezparmenter, plymouth says...
2:32pm Fri 22 Jan 10

u sick person i find out who u are id be face to face with u love u know nothing about my family yr probley a 5minete freind off carols if zowie was alive now he would give u **** u sad person with nothing better to do with yr sad life !!!!!!!!!!!

shezparmenter, plymouth says...
2:43pm Fri 22 Jan 10

footpad if yr such a good big friend male or female tell us so we can meet you like my wife says if yr a five min friend of carols she should have kept her pills locked away thats what gave zowie the tiredness to fall asleep by the lake as it was her meds mostly found in his blood maybe yr a seedy ian beale scared of the truth or a big fat pat butcher who thinks mutton dressed as lambs the way to be well carols not even seen zowies children nor mine and sherries so that how much she thought of them please dont feed carols pathetic feel sorry for me ego as its zowie that died shes a selfish attention seeking woman who lied about being sectioned into bath hospital when fact she was at her nieces house we can prove this but carol wont like us to as more of her lies will come to light so back off sam !!

mafiaman, says...
5:20pm Fri 22 Jan 10

footpad i really feel sorry for you ,you sad excuse for afterbirth,do you really think zowie would be proud of you slagging of sam the love of his life and his sister i dont think so ! perhaps you should get your facts straight before diss people there is one word ...slander and theres a law about that.oh and janine is fictanal just like the crap you wrote.

shezparmenter, plymouth says...
5:43pm Fri 22 Jan 10

hear hear well said mafiaman some people have sad lifes shut in doors all day with nothing better to do then make crap up well the ones who knew zowie best and not just for five mins know the true story and how zowie and sam had agreat relationship and two great children xx

onthesofa, wilts says...
6:09pm Fri 22 Jan 10

What a disgracefull thing to write,true or not is of no importance here,a family have lost a son,brother,father etc in tragic circumstances and dont you think his family and children bless them both will live with this tradgedy forever.So sad he felt there was no other way than to end his life,may he rest in peace.

shezparmenter, plymouth says...
7:04pm Fri 22 Jan 10

i can tell u now on the sofa it ant true i did not try to kill my brother and his partner is still on her own with the two children greaving and is hurt by all this hate that my mother is telling people as she blames sam but facts say how my brother died it was not sams fault and they need to grow up and leave her alone !!!

raymondc717, melksham says...
7:36pm Fri 22 Jan 10

shezparmenter wrote:
i can tell u now on the sofa it ant true i did not try to kill my brother and his partner is still on her own with the two children greaving and is hurt by all this hate that my mother is telling people as she blames sam but facts say how my brother died it was not sams fault and they need to grow up and leave her alone !!!
well said sherry, zowie was a good man, and yes you know me, xx

raymondc717, melksham says...
7:38pm Fri 22 Jan 10

raymondc717 wrote:
shezparmenter wrote: i can tell u now on the sofa it ant true i did not try to kill my brother and his partner is still on her own with the two children greaving and is hurt by all this hate that my mother is telling people as she blames sam but facts say how my brother died it was not sams fault and they need to grow up and leave her alone !!!
well said sherry, zowie was a good man, and yes you know me, xx
i should of said, I DO NOT TAKE SIDES, Zowie should be allowed to Rest Im Peace

shezparmenter, plymouth says...
7:50pm Fri 22 Jan 10

raymondc717 yes he should be allowed to rest in piece now wensday was the closer to zowies death and there for people should stop telling lies and let his partner and family greave for him in peice !!

mafiaman, says...
8:41pm Fri 22 Jan 10

its nice to know there are real human beings with desent views,rather than useing this site to talk about crap,and i dont think his kids need to hear about poeple slagging there mum off,but to remeber the good times they all had together which they had plenty of.

old bert, beanacre says...
9:42pm Fri 22 Jan 10

Any chance of:
1) Starting sentences with Capital letters?
2) Using the occasional comma and full stop.,?
3) Writing in the Queen's English and nt sms speek??

hobbs, melksham says...
10:01pm Fri 22 Jan 10

zowie sweetheart i hope you will be able to rest in peace now lovey you may be gone but never forgoten love aunty jill,uncle jay&family x a little message for footpad untill you can write something of meaning about this young lad and his family and sister i suggest you get back to your soap box or ie;get medical help as you dont no what you are on about,obviously you havent lost anyone in your life otherwise you wouldent be so stupid enough to write rubbish about people,zowies twin and sister and other brothers may of had there ups and downs in the past but they cared deeply for each other its obvious that you dont no this family at all or you wouldent write such rubbish.And i hope that the person or persons who have fed you this rubbish is ashamed of them self.

Not Kate Price, Warminster says...
10:54pm Fri 22 Jan 10

old bert wrote:
Any chance of:
1) Starting sentences with Capital letters?
2) Using the occasional comma and full stop.,?
3) Writing in the Queen's English and nt sms speek??
Too many right parentheses? dunno 4 sure tho' - old Bert

Not Kate Price, Warminster says...
11:08pm Fri 22 Jan 10

footpad1988 wrote:
rest in peace zowie you will be missed, by most, obviously not by sam as she has already moved on, it took her only a week to sleep around after this tragedy and playing the act of a widow i must say your almost as good as janine butcher, zowie could have had anyone, god only knows why he stuck with a selfish evil immature thing. ohh and his sister obv didnt love him either as she always said she wanted him gone and even tried to do it herself a female version of archy mitchell (well i think it is a woman but is quite hard to tell).
Have you ever thought that people do not know the real you? When I listen to people say things about others I always learn more about the speaker than the person they happen to be talking about.
You sound like such a sweetie and I'm a SARCASTIC BA5TARD

old bert, beanacre says...
2:31pm Sat 23 Jan 10

And do you remember teacher telling you when (if) you went to school, that names are started with a capital? So Sherry, Zowie etc??? (A man being called Zowie probably accounts for a lot!)

shezparmenter, plymouth says...
3:21pm Sat 23 Jan 10

shut yr sad fat mouth old bert u need to get my name right but then again the old is enough said !!!!!!!!!!!!

Delbert Molases, Pegland says...
10:13pm Sat 23 Jan 10

Here we go. Kate must have the rags on again!

Not Kate Price, Warminster says...
9:11am Sun 24 Jan 10

Delbert Molases wrote:
Here we go. Kate must have the rags on again!
Two assumptions in that second sentence and a comma cld have turned it into one sentence - are you trying to wind up old bert? In response to the thread I agree with the sentiments expressed by onthesofa and if i'm ever paid to provide advice for you or anyone else I promise to be deal with your emotional needs a little less aggressively (apols 4 me grammir old bert but not had me shredded wheat yet)

old bert, beanacre says...
10:57am Sun 24 Jan 10

That's OK Not Kate, I know my own hand is steadier once I've had my oats.

onthesofa, wilts says...
3:03pm Sun 24 Jan 10

Katie Price,take no notice as this Delbert is the old Trapezium under a different name as he has to keep changing it after upsetting the wt.

old bert, beanacre says...
6:33am Mon 25 Jan 10

shezparmenter, I took my spelling of "Sherry" from this, so you had better attack Raymond.

raymondc717 wrote:

well said sherry, zowie was a good man, and yes you know me, xx

raymondc717, melksham says...
8:54am Mon 25 Jan 10

it was mis spelt, and yes it does happen, should of been sherrie ,

old bert, beanacre says...
1:15pm Wed 27 Jan 10

Should HAVE been!!

0/10, see me after class.

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